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Moving HOME!
Alison
09/08/2011

Is it wrong to keep up my Sailblogs account and continue blurbing indiscriminately about non-nautical things when we don't even own a sailboat anymore? Or does it count that we're currently moving back into our marina home, where they keep lots of boats and have lots of sailors? I have to assume yes, because it's too much trouble to get a new blog address and start all over, so here I remain. Granted, this isn't the same as a 22-day Pacific crossing or swimming with whales in Tonga, but I'll keep it up anyhow.

I've just arrived in San Francisco, with a short layover here and then on to Hong Kong tomorrow. I'm sitting in a rather noisy hotel bar, with trendy cement floors and granite tables, populated by well-dressed city folk chatting amiably, most of them in black work clothes. At the end of the bar a large HD flat screen airs a baseball game, muted of course, since nobody would be able to hear it anyhow. I went out for a walk but the brisk September chill of this bay city sent me back in, not to mention I forgot my wallet. So I've settled on a hotel cheese plate and some good international people watching.

Getting back to that bit about how we're moving back into our home: we've begun what looks to be a month-long process of slowly excavating our things from storage and separating the treasures from the trash. It seems our definition of those two things has changed somewhat since our trip, and I hope to keep it that way, striving for a more simple existence with fewer things to clutter up the interior residential landscape, not to mention the already-messy interior of my head. Our goal to avoid any house projects has failed miserably, though, and we're headlong into painting, garage-floor coating, kitchen floor replacing and other domestic sprucing events before our furniture moves back in and makes said projects more difficult later. So we're still in limbo, although we're quite good at it by now. We have temporary digs at Carol and John's mobile home nearby until we unearth our mattress from the store room. But once our stuff is all back in, then - really -- we're going to relax a bit. Maybe in time for the holidays we can just hang out at home and enjoy our life.

In boat-related news, we do have a little sailboat coming our way, a dinghy with a sail that Allan's dad has graciously given us and which has yet to be relocated from Long Beach, CA where it resides upside-down on a rack beneath a beautiful green canvas cover. We're both looking forward to some easy, simple sails around the marina, with our feet hanging over one rail and our heads over the other. We're on the lookout for another kayak, since we're down to one after selling the other two in Australia. And we're both interested in finding a few used paddling surfboards, the kind you stand and paddle around on -- seems like a nice way to get a little upper-body workout and enjoy the marina view at the same time.

Everyone wants to know how it is being back at work. It's good. It's really good under the circumstances, those being the state of the world economy, and especially the US economy, where the jobless rate nears (or tops? I've lost track) 9%. It's really good to see a little income into the checking account instead of a constant drain. It's good to have a focus, and most of all it's good to have such fun jobs that waited patiently for our return. What a blessing, and as we talk to more and more people we realize how lucky we are.

Being back home is odd in so many ways: while we were gone it seems our friends and family didn't age a minute. Some, like my mother, grew even younger. They all look the same (or better) than when we left, and that's a weird feeling, like we didn't really leave at all. More and more, as we move farther into our return to civilization, it feels like we dreamed the whole thing.

And the plants! In many cases, thanks, I suppose, to good pruners and gardeners, the trees and plants look almost the very same as when we left, with the exception, of course, of the flax bushes in our front yard. They've turned into giant pointy flax geysers, reaching for the sky and stretching across the far edges of the sidewalk. They spew upward in the tiny front yard, dwarfing the plants around them. On the very first hour of our return the other day, I watched as several dear neighbors left the sidewalk and stepped into the street in an awkward arc around our dominating bushes, so I grabbed the clippers and "pineappled" the offenders, cutting off all the lower leaves in a pattern that makes them look like giant yard pineapples.

Now, some of you may remember my short missive on the flax plant while we were in New Zealand. It's boring, but I'll repeat it anyhow. The Maori discovered that the flax can be used for so many things it became indispensible to their existence. They were stunned to learn that the invading Europeans hadn't even heard of it: how could they possibly survive without it? The humble flax provides food and medicine, can be woven into clothes, mats, houses, boats, and rafts. It can be twisted into incredibly strong rope, and I'm sure there are other uses I've already forgotten. So here I am, back from the wild adventure, much more MacGyver-like than ever before, with a honed survivor-mentality and a thrifty, use-everything approach to life that my mother has always inherently understood.

And here are these flax bushes, taking over my yard, eating the neighborhood, looking, well, it's true - looking rather ugly in their otherwise rather governed realm. They're wild and unrestrained. But they're so doggone useful! I can't pull them out! What if I need to build a boat? Weave a cocktail dress or braid some dock lines?

Yes, it's good being back at work, back with our families, back in our home. It's good to have such an abundant selection of breakfast cereals, and to be able to choose from over 5,000 kinds of milk and milk-substitutes. But we miss sailing, and mostly, we miss cruising. The good thing is, we have a plan. We're going to do it again. Not anytime soon, but as time seems to fly, it will be soon enough. And then, my continued membership in Sailblogs will be justified. In the meantime, the airline updates, the flax updates, the kitchen floor and the domestic updates will continue.



09/08/2011 | Terri klein
Thanks so much for your update - best wishes to you both!
09/09/2011 | Mike Nickerson
Hi from an old student!
Stopped by Cable the other day and started talking flying and when said who my instructor was, they mentioned you were in the new letter. Hope all is well. I'm doing well.
09/26/2011 | Jared
I still enjoy reading your updates. keep at 'em
First Trip Back
Alison
07/30/2011, Hong Kong

All day yesterday, as we were readying the jet for departure in Chicago, dealing with a maintenance delay, discussing a potential diversion for a fuel stop in Japan if the tropical storm in Hong Kong threatened extensive delays, surrounded by the general chaos of being back at work, and feeling completely out of sorts in my awkward uniform, I had the theme song to "Welcome Back, Kotter" by John Sebastian in my head: "Welcome back, your dreams were your ticket out."

I'd commuted in to Chicago to fly this 6-day trip to Hong Kong and Singapore the day before, and had a relaxing night in the Hyatt Regency O'Hare before showing up for duty at United's largest pilot base, our home city. I love Chicago O'Hare's Airport -- I love the tunnel that runs between Concourses B and C, with the tinkling bells playing "Rhapsody in Blue" and the changing colored lights overhead, I love the recording that says something about the moving walkway coming to an end, but how, with multiple recordings at once, sounds more like "keep walking, keep walking." It was great to be back for the first time in almost a decade, but it's all a bit intimidating. I couldn't remember the door codes, or where things were, nor was I familiar with the local mores of the pilot group here. Like, where to get the paperwork, at which table to sit for international flight planning, whether I should grab one of those little 3-letter city code placards and put it on the table for the rest of the crew to see when they showed up. I figured it all out, and soon enough the other 3 crewmembers arrived and after greetings and introductions, we were in the business of flight planning. We talked about the new flight plan format, briefed the weather situation in HKG, had a long conversation with the dispatcher, and headed for the gate. We discussed the possibility of a fuel divert with the head flight attendant, who reminded us of the tight schedule for crew legality if we took much of a delay. Then we discovered the faulty radar unit, which we needed in order to avoid the extensive weather across the continent as well as in Hong Kong. The maintenance delay, combined with the possible fuel divert, was beginning to threaten the successful completion of our flight. "Welcome baack ..."

Now, no matter what you might think, there isn't a pilot alive that wants to delay or cancel a flight. We have a genetic predisposition to complete our mission, and our goal is to remove barriers and get the job done safely. It really is. So the threat of a crew going illegal and having to stay overnight for crew rest, plus the obvious inconvenience to passengers, is contrary to our very existence. But we also know that safety reigns, and sometimes, it is what it is. So we were ready for anything.

In the end, our maintenance people in Chicago were quick to find a replacement radar unit, the weather in Hong Kong was good enough that we didn't need to get more fuel in Japan, and, after a 14-hour flight across Canada, Alaska, Russia, Japan and China, we were only 30 minutes late. My first landing in the 747 in 2 years was nice and smooth, the sun was shining, and through it all, John Sebastian's mellow voice kept me company.

Now, as I sit in the glass-walled lobby of the Novotel Hotel in Wan Chai, smack-dab in the bathroom-remodeling neighborhood of Hong Kong, it's raining. Outside, people rush past in colorful mobs, half of them hiding under umbrellas, the other half appearing to not notice the warm rain. The lobby is full of mostly Chinese guests, busily buried in their laptops and smart phones, with a few cute kids squeaking around, being chased by serious, alert parents. I splurged this morning on a $10 reflexology session in the upstairs salon of a 24-hour massage place, next door to The Old China Hand, a bar that a lot of airline folk frequent on their long layovers.

I was reminded of a night a few years ago in the Old China Hand. I was sitting with a few co-workers when suddenly the music was turned off and a group of men began to sing a cappella on the other side of the room, in deep, rich voices. For 45 minutes they mesmerized everyone in the bar, singing hymns, marching songs, political yarns and Irish folk songs. At last, they finished, and of course, I had to ask them what it was all about. Turned out to be a group of English banking professionals or something, who perform together on a regular basis. Often, they said, they'd fall into an impromptu rehearsal in the Old China Hand. I've never been back to hear them again, and wonder if they're still around.

It's good to be back at work, and flying the 747 again. As Allan has noted, this time around, we get a chance to learn the airplane a little better, and to bring a fresh attitude to work. A do-over, of sorts. I'm seeing it all through fresh, or refreshed, eyes. For example, sleeping in the crew rest bunk: it used to be really tough to sleep in turbulence, but now, after being literally thrown across the boat in heavy seas, the airplane bunk seems downright peaceful. And meals: someone else prepares them! And brings us drinks! Of course, since 9-11 our lives have changed, and we're virtual captives in the cockpit, not allowed out without gate and guard, but still - it's a bit of a luxury to not have to cope with a thrashing galley and flying food, as I did for 3 meals a day on Fly Aweigh.

I do hate the uniform. This is where my unbridled whining reaches its peak. Who in the world invented the dress shirt and tie? What cruel, tortuous, evil person decided to strangle a perfectly nice neck with a rough cotton collar, encircled and constricted with a tie? Who invented buttons? And pants, and socks, and dress shoes? Oh, for my flip-flops and shorts!

The paycheck will be nice, though. Welcome Back!

07/30/2011 | Tom Petry
Hey Kid...Welcome back!! I totally agree with your comments on the uniform. The man who invented the necktie should be hoisted aloft and left for the scavengers. Besides that, I think the passengers would enjoy the crew in flip flops and shorts.
BIG HUGS, Tom 'n Patti
07/30/2011 | margy
Good lovely morning to you and always for me when there is an Alison blog on my computer screen. I plan to wear my Flyaweigh T shirt today in honor of your newest tale and in opposition to your collar and tie. Couldn't you at least sneak on a soft stretch fabric collar? Who knows, it could start a fad. You would be the Darling of the Cockpit if it caught on. Dream on?
Michelle and I are going on a training sail on sunday so she can meet the girls. We will think of you when we are out splashing around. Love you, Ma
07/30/2011 | Mom G
So glad to hear your first flight back went well.
I agree, maybe it's time to instigate for a universal uniform change... maybe not as Island Girl as you would like.. but at least a change of fabric for the good of all mankind??
07/30/2011 | Scott
Sometimes it's good to get back in the saddle. Have fun!

Also, I would have to say that wearing a dress shirt and tie was in my top 10 reasons why I decided to fly helicopters for a living instead of airplanes. The helicopter mentality seems to be "Don't fly in anything you wouldn't be comfortable hiking in."
07/30/2011 | Geri Silveira
Hi Alison, You've done water and air, now you might consider land ... maybe riding your bikes or motorcycles across the country? About uniforms -- everyone wears one, whether they know it or not. The suit is the uniform of business people who feel empowered and confident in one; artists wear flouffy blouses, astrological symbols and puka shells, college professors wear leather sandals, chinos and blue button-down collar shirts. Writers wear, oh, well, I'm not a good example -- I wore a uniform for 12 years in school, so I don't know what to wear. Look forward to seeing you soon.
07/31/2011 | Tiffany
You're back on this half of the world! Congrats with finishing up your training :) Now you'll just need to let us know when you're headed out to Sydney again! We're still up in the Snowy Mountains, and it's so strange to be experiencing snow in July! Hope your trip home is just as nice.
07/31/2011 | Patty de Wet
Alison, it is with a new level of comprehension that I read your pilot stories! I just got back from a weekend of flying ultralite "trikes" in the San Juan Islands. There was a group of 8 of us, and many hrs spent on evaluating weather, checking and rechecking equipment, "group" flying issues..... very exciting! the group is flying T2B (top to Bottom-Canada to Mexico) probably in two 'segments" 1/2 this yr., 1/2 next. I could only join for a weekend, but it was great!!!!Not a 747 by any means, but I am learning more and more about flying and love and appreciate it. Met up w/ classmate Marty on San Juan, he did some flying with us and got a great pic of a bald eagle from Barte's trike! so I guess you could say we flew with eagles! Glad your first flight was a safe and uneventful one. So enjoyed seeing you at open mic night in Upland. Maybe pizza another time when you are in the area! - Patty
07/31/2011 | Donpedro
Welcome back to the "Friendly Skies," of United, let alone the technical items and natural occurrences that keep you challenged.
Happy Flying again on that Giant Big Bird...
DP
07/31/2011 | Greg
Pfft. one of the main reasons I lef the military?

Tie envy.
08/03/2011 | Becky
Oh how I understand after just getting back from being on Serenity for the last couple of weeks. I'm in TN and have been jumping on and off planes (as a passenger though). I will keep looking for you at the airports!! welcome back!
08/31/2011 | Susan and Dennis Ross
As always, your updates are so much fun to read! Congrats to you both for getting back into the swing of living in the states...and work! Hong Kong, Australia, 747 -- who would have thought that in a short time after cruising the seas you'd be back cruising the sky -- Good on ya!!
If you need a vacation, come back to enjoy the City of Peace, La Paz, in hot and humid Baja. We miss seeing your smiles!
Training
Alison
07/19/2011, Denver and Lousiville

Where are we? What's happening? Are we back at work? In training? Trying to adapt to the fast-paced airline world and all the inherent changes that time and the economy have brought? Or have we given up on the real world and slunk back to the sea on a small flimsy raft with a hand-held radio and a few dozen heads of cabbage? This blurb will attempt to answer these, and other unasked questions.

I'm in Denver, Colorado, finishing up the last week of my recurrent training on the B-747, and should be home Saturday. Allan arrived in Louisville, Kentucky yesterday and will be in his recurrent training on the B-757/767 until mid-August. We have yet to see any paychecks but are confident that soon enough, actual cash dollars will be deposited into our account and our re-employment will be a reality.

My training has been great fun. I have some wonderful friends here in Denver, Mike and Sallie, who have a delightful home (Sallie is a talented designer) and have opened their guest room to me as backup to the hotel. I rented a microscopic car for a very good price, so mobility is easy. My plan was to stay at the hotel during the week and enjoy some "home-away-from-home" time at Mike and Sallie's on the weekends, but they've made things so tempting here at what Mike calls "The Mouse House" and what I call (since it's gargantuan rebuild) "The Mouse That Roared House" that I've opted to out-stay my welcome. Tomorrow is my day off, and I'm heading north to visit some former Albuquerque friends who moved to Denver a few years back to join the airline world.

Denver is experiencing an unusual monsoon season this summer, with torrential rains falling almost every afternoon, making things quite exciting for someone used to the stable weather patterns of So Cal. Everything is lush and green -- it's like buckets of Miracle Gro are falling from the sky.

Getting back in the swing of things hasn't been as hard as I thought, although I may be speaking too soon: the big test comes this week, as I finish the last 2 days of simulator training and then have my check ride on Saturday. After that, a trip or two with a Captain who is qualified to do "line checks," and I'm released to the wilds of the sky.

My schedule in August includes a few trips to Sydney, Australia. I'm excited to see our friends Behan and Jamie on s/v Totem, who, with their 3 fabulous kids, are snugged into Camarray Marina in North Sydney for a year or two, building up the cruising kitty so they can continue on their world adventure. We get regular emails from our friends on Paikea Mist and Serenity, who are both in Fiji, as well as Steve and Trish on Curious, who are at the top of Australia getting ready to launch on the Indonesia Rally with a bunch of other boats. It's exciting to keep up with our friends as they continue cruising, although we of course feel hefty pangs of envy. Nonetheless, we'll never forget the 10,000 miles of South Pacific that was our home for 18 months, and having done it, it's easier to feel we're right there with our friends in those azure anchorages, diving with colorful fish and sea turtles, sipping cold drinks at sunset as the boat gently rocks at anchor .... argh, this is harder than I thought ... wanna go back ... no - get a grip - focus, focus ... must ... pay ... off ... loan ...

07/19/2011 | Terril Jones
Whoosh -
You know how to reach me if you fly to Beijing! Let's rectify our near-miss in Tokyo :-)
- Terril
07/24/2011 | Greg Norte
let us know when you start flying to Sydney, we might be able to get you up here to the OZ ski slopes.
Last Few Days of Retirement
Alison
06/25/2011, Somewhere in Southern California

Vagabonds, nomads. That's us, still out here in the nebulous realm of somewhere, nowhere, everywhere. Moving from bed to bed as we house sit at the Deese's, at dad's, at Carol and John's; and as we visit family here and there and go on little local overnight sailing trips. Our lives remain unsettled and unstable and mostly as happy as ever. The ultimate irony of the last two years is this: at the end of it all, homeless and boat-less, we're cat-sitting our own cat. The other day I sort of freaked out when I learned he'd slipped out the door without his collar on. "Carol and John NEVER let him out without his collar!" I wail. Then I realize, "Hey! He's MY cat!" I don't know, I think I'm losing my identity ...

But we're having fun anyhow. We've been continuing to fly a little bit, Allan is working on his "tail wheel endorsement" so he's trained and safe in those funny-looking airplanes that sit tail-low and often sound more like old tractors or sewing machines than airplanes. I've had some fun, too, logging an hour the other day in the same plane Allan's flying, an Aeronca Champ owned by Frank Donnelly, aka Dr. D. It felt great to be back in my favorite kind of airplane, and I was surprised at how much I remembered. My flying's not pretty, yet, but it's safe. I'll get the finesse back soon enough. We're also putting a little time in Chuck and Mary's C-172, my old friend 8TN.

This week we had some fun in s/v Our Escape, Allan's dad's Catalina 36, with a lovely sail out to the isthmus at Santa Catalina Island for an overnight in the harbor. Perfect day out, and since it was Wednesday we got our pick of moorings, right up close in the shelter of the island and near the dock. A nice dinner ashore, a fun night at the mooring while the sea lions gorged on the massive school of fish (sardines?) that were flooding the harbor, a curious sleep in the v-berth (why is there velco in the sleeping bag?), breakfast ashore and a brisk walk under cloudy skies to the other side of the isthmus, and then it was time to go.

A mile or so east of the island on our way back to San Pedro, motoring along just fat, dumb and happy, we suddenly had a loss of engine power which caught us offguard, putting little exclamation points over our surprised heads. Some investigation into the matter led us to suspect a fuel problem, and sure enough, a clogged fuel filter was the culprit. Ah! Fun challenges at sea! As we bobbed in the flat ocean, drifting on the weak current, going nowhere in the absence of even a breath of air, we put our three heads together. I stayed at the helm and optimistically pointed us toward San Pedro, occasionally tossing relevant and ever-so-helpful suggestions down to Allan and Grant, who dug into things down below, improvising with kitchen devices and mismatched tools to get the job done. But things didn't quite work out as planned, and soon enough it was clear we would not have an engine to rely on for the rest of the day. But no worries - it's a sailboat. Sailboats have those big white things that stick up in the air and make them go. So normally we wouldn't have been concerned, but we did have that annoying lack of air that I already mentioned, which promised a very long trip across the channel.

We bobbed around some more, thoughtfully eating potato chips and cheese puffs, and finally came up with the idea of pushing the Catalina 36 toward home with the little "rubber ducky", as our friend in Australia calls it, propelled by Allan's grandad's ancient 2.2 Mercury outboard motor. Slowly, we made it across the 20 mile expanse, aided about half the time by a breeze that was forecast to become a decent wind but never did, and the rest of the time by that little Mercury. It was impressive - slow, but steady. We took turns in the rubber ducky, pushing the big boat from the center of the stern, with Dad at the helm of the Catalina and the third person keeping an eye out for ships in the shipping lane and the subsequent wake that might cause the little dinghy some trouble. We were lucky it was a flat sea, and things went well. We even caught a puff or two air inside the breakwater and were able to sail west to Cabrillo Marina and onto the fuel dock, where the magnificently capable Vessel Assist guy came to our aid and backed us into our slip. We had the boat washed up and were on our way to dinner by 9:45pm, after what was, for Allan and I, a very satisfying day, evoking that sense of adventure that we loved so much in our cruising. We'll be back at it soon enough; in the meantime, these little adventures fuel the fire and keep us happy.

As far as work is concerned, I have just a few more days of retirement, and am officially on the payroll again next Wednesday, with requalification training to follow. Allan is scheduled for requal at UPS in mid-July for 20 days. Then, in September, if I haven't already mentioned this part, we return to our home in Oxnard and see what we remember of our old lives.

Oh, and the velco? That's what the missing sheet liners attach to. Mystery solved.

06/25/2011 | Donpedro
You time at sea has given you the wisdom and experience to weather any storm or challenge on the high seas with such creativity and calm. Allison, I have enjoyed reading your very descriptive Sail Blogs and following you and Allen these many months. Sail & Fly Aweigh.
06/28/2011 | Greg Norte
pfft.....becalmed for hours. You two going all soft on us now? ;-) If it's not at sea for 22 days MINIMUM then it's just a lull in the weather....

07/03/2011 | Mark and Daryl
If you run out of beds in which to sleep in California we have one here in Los Lunas. Keep writing.
Ground Bound Update
Alison
05/11/2011, Claremont, California

Friends and family,

I haven't written since we've returned to the Land of Too Many Choices, and thought I'd give an update on how we're adapting to our land-lubbing life.

We're house sitting for friends in Claremont, California, readying said house for sale with the help and guidance of said friends, the Deeses. Yard work, - lots of it - cleaning, overseeing and working with painters, tree-trimmers, wood-pile removers, carpet stretchers, art collectors, and fence people. It's been a powerful push to get things up to a certain level of presentability for the sagging real estate market, but we're very near, and for me it's been great fun. Digging in the dirt after the aquatic life has been very, yes, earthy.

We've also been taking advantage of much this area of Southern California has to offer. Being my hometown, I have a natural affinity for all things Claremont. The smell of spring -- wild sage and eucalyptus, blooming citrus, and even the mineral smell of warm dirt are the familiar scents which make me feel at home. The downtown area of Claremont's Village, often used as a backdrop for Hollywood films, is as delightful as ever. Speckled with college students from around the world, a healthy senior community and a myriad of intelligent, interesting professionals from conservative attorneys to the ubiquitous liberal artists, with a few liberal attorneys and some conservative artists tossed in for balance, this town is never boring. Allan's dad is around the corner and my sister is down the street. Max the Cat is a just a mile away and the house I grew up in is right next door. And I'm pretty sure the gray cat who saunters through the yard on occasion is a descendent of the wild cat we used to call "Untouchable," who lurked and sauntered 35 years ago.

We've re-established a presence at Cable Airport in nearby Upland, reputed to be the largest family-owned airport in the world, where I've been a fixture since I was 17. I got my first airport job in the flight school there as a desk chickie, (aka counter cutie) and in subsequent years flight instructed, and had three planes, one at a time, in a hangar on the north side of the field. Our dear friends Chuck and Mary hold down the fort at the most sociable hangar on the planet. Known as "The Tumbling Gyro," it's outfitted it with a full bar, kitchen, bathroom, workshop, an elevator to Mary's second-floor office, and - oh yeah - it actually does have an airplane. The Tumbled Gyro serves as the "Cheers" of Cable Airport, the place to go for a cold soda or a drink after a day of whatever anyone's day might be filled with. Chuck and Mary have been a stabilizing force in my life for many years, and their generosity knows few bounds. Recently they even offered their airplane for our use to get current in single engine planes, which Allan did last week and I am looking forward to doing tomorrow morning.

As I write we are in the company of Allan's brother Mark and his wife Pam, (pictured above with us at Fullerton Airport) who flew their 4-seat Mooney from Texas for a 12-day holiday that encompassed Mother's Day and the Planes of Fame Airshow at Chino Airport this weekend. We've been bopping about the southland in cars and planes, staying and hanging with family, moving about like nomads.

Oh, and that's the other thing: stability. Did I use that word in a sentence earlier on? Because if I did, it was misleading. There's really no domestic stability in our lives, although I'm not complaining. If there's one thing that came out of the last 2 years - fraught with and underscored by instability -- it's that taking it all one day at a time really is the best, and easiest way to live. After we shake off the mild confusion every morning, and have more-or-less successfully answered the questions "where are we?" and more importantly, "what's for breakfast?" we just go with the flow. Since our return we've slept in no fewer than 6 beds, packing and unpacking, in a perpetual state of putting even smaller versions of our stuff into duffel bags to cart to the next place for a few days. We've taken to always bringing our own sheets and pillows for some semblance of familiarity, which, for me, is quite calming. We'll continue this bed-hopping for a few more months. Right now we're staying with Mark and Pam at Allan's dad's house while Deeses are in town for a week. Then we'll move back until we do a little more travelling, hoping for a trip to Texas, some time in California's Bay Area and a few days in New Mexico, with more visits to the mom's in Oxnard and Santa Maria. We return to our jobs sometime in July, when we'll sleep in hotels for recurrent training in Colorado and Kentucky. It won't be until September when we move back into our home in Oxnard that some level of domestic stability will return to our lives, but as long as the day starts with a hot cup of coffee -- preferably with a nice dollop of half-and-half - and as long as we can share it together, we're fine.

Since we've been back we've attended a wedding, a funeral, an 80th birthday party, the symphony and the theatre. We've spent good time with our families and realize more than ever before how important they are. We've loosely reconnected with the church I attended 10 years ago and which has conveniently moved down the street. We've flown in 8TN, Chuck and Mary's Cessna 172 and sailed on s/v Our Escape, Allan's dad's Catalina 36. We've become accustomed once again to the grocery aisles and their dizzying and almost embarrassing abundance. We've stuffed things into our storeroom and yanked other things out. We have roofs over our head, beds under our backs, and coffee in the pot. It's as good as ever.

05/11/2011 | Terril Jones
Welcome home. Our home, as it is mine, too :-) Glad to hear the Deese Ranch is in such good hands. Let me know when you come to Beijing so we don't have a near-hit like we did in Japan!

Terril
05/12/2011 | MomG
Best Mother's Day ever! with all of you together.. home safe and sound. Thank you for a wonderful visit. You two deserve every great experience you have.. and now your brother decides HE needs one, too. I know it's your Dad's genes. It's all I can do to try to keep up!
05/13/2011 | Terri Klein
Thanks so much for your update. I have followed your blurb for awhile and took part in your adventures as if I were with you. Best of Luck to you both and if you are ever in NY feel free to stop by!
Terri
05/16/2011 | Tiffany
We've missed you guys out here, although it's great to hear that you're settling back into "normal" life!
05/18/2011 | Greg Norte
so assuming I'm reading this right you sailed all over the world and now you're WWOOFing

except, you don't have backpacks...

and you're doing it in your home town...

with airplanes...

and somehow you're sheets are involved...

you know guys, every time I think Tiffany and I managed to be contrarian enough you just gotta up the ante a little more.

We think of you often
-Greg
05/19/2011 | Lucy Lowe/Jim Cassidy
Alison and Allan....what a fun read. And meeting you two with John and Maryann in Mazatlan and then playing in LaCruz was a treat! Bless you and thanks for your wonderful/insightful blogs....
10/16/2011 | ctflyer
Reestablishing a presence at Cable Airport - I have not tried that yet but sounds like FUN! From one adventurous former "desk chickie" to another - I just love reading your blurbs....and I am looking to get singel engine current again and wish my Captain would too - so if ever you happen to be borrowing a plnae and toodle towards Paso Robles, I would LOVE to go up with you and maybe could hook you up for a flight in my friends Stinson....anyway - glad you are back in the air and back to homesteading...more or less! Love ya, Cecile
Home
Alison
03/25/2011, Claremont, California

We're sitting on a United-Continental Airlines Boeing 747, the latest in our recent string of airplane rides, jetting our way across the Pacific from Sydney to Los Angeles and flying along the same route -- in reverse -- that we sailed in the last 17 months. We're going home.

But where, exactly, is home? Home is where the boat's moored, where the camper's parked, where your clothes and your pillows are, or where the food is. Home is where you feel at rest, not biding your time until you really are home. Much to my surprise, I didn't yearn for home on this trip. In fact, for the first time in my life, no matter where we were in the last 18 months I felt completely in the moment and happily at home. Whether we were zipping back and forth between Marina del Rey and Ventura in the last stressful days while Catalina Yachts was still prepping the boat for us, or on our first official passage at sea down the Baja California coast, with 18 foot waves and 30 knot winds, or in the clean, starkly beautiful anchorages in the Sea of Cortez -- we felt warm and settled on Fly Aweigh. As we provisioned her for the long crossing to the Marquesas, snug in our berth in the charming seaside town of La Cruz for two months, sailing on Banderas Bay and learning more about our boat, we felt at home. On the 22-day crossing Fly Aweigh kept us safe, and by the time we got to Hiva Oa, it felt odd not to be aboard. Throughout French Polynesia, across to Beveridge Reef, The Cook Islands, Niue, Tonga, Fiji, New Caledonia, and finally into Australia, home was wherever we were.

When we sold Fly Aweigh I thought we'd experience a deep sense of loss -- I expected to feel ungrounded, and quite literally homeless. But the next surprise was that we never felt that way. We were blessed with fantastic buyers, who made it feel good to pass Fly Aweigh on to her next adventures. After arriving in New Zealand we had generous friends who gave us a place to stay on their boat, Curious, and just like that, Auckland felt like home. Traveling around the North Island in Subaru Sally, borrowed from our dear friends Michael and Gloria, and sleeping in their borrowed tent also felt like home. 6 weeks in a metal box -- our rented campervan named Hennessey -- going from campground to campground sometimes so often that I frequently had trouble remembering where we were, it still felt just fine.

Now, as we head home, we go not to the thing with the really big mortgage in Oxnard (which is rented out through the summer) but to the next iteration of home for us -- house sitting. For some or all of the summer we'll be in Claremont, next door to where I grew up, in the house where I spent nearly as much time as in my own, lounging around, eating pistachio nuts and avoiding homework, hanging out with my best friend Mary Ann.

But I think the real reason I've never felt homeless as we've journeyed farther and farther away from our actual home, and moved progressively into smaller and smaller spaces is because of my warm and wonderful husband. He has rolled with the sea, settled into the moment, shared every day of this adventure with me, and always been my home.

We're passing just north of the Fiji Islands, according to the inflight route tracker display thing, and I'm wondering what's worse: sitting in a coach seat for 14 hours, or crossing the South Pacific in an unstable plastic tub being propelled by bedsheets for 14 months. I think I prefer the tub. But I do know this: our South Pacific Odyssey -- our Right-or-Left Adventure -- is coming to a close, and a new phase is opening up. It was a giant leap of faith to take this trip, with many personal and financial sacrifices. It was worth every penny, every minute. We've been blessed beyond our expectations, had experiences we never imagined, met solid and wonderful people who will be friends for life, and grew in our marriage in ways we could not predict. We learned about ourselves. We have no idea how or why this all happened as well as it did, but we'll keep the faith and see what comes next. People have repeatedly told us that after a trip like this we'll come back changed. I'm not sure what we've changed into, but hopefully it's a better version of what we were when we left. Maybe more relaxed, more tolerant, less fussy. We'll see as time goes by. Allan has already admitted that his road rage will likely return within 2 minutes in LA traffic, but if that's the worst of it, we'll be doing okay.

***
As I post this it's Friday the 25th. We're settled into our new, latest home. We're working on receiving and clearing all our shipped goods from Australia, which should arrive today; running around seeing all our immediate family; getting things out of, and putting other things into our storeroom; trying to adjust to driving on the other side of the road; and getting ready for my nephew Scott and his beautiful fiancee Susan's wedding tomorrow. We have over 10,000 sailing miles, 8 countries, and 100's of cool critter sightings under our belts; we're older and maybe wiser and certainly more content. All is well.

Finally, I want to say what an adventure it's been writing this blog. As you may know I call it a "blurb" in honor of my dear friend Carol, who passed away from cancer last year. She dubbed it "blurb" and blurb it remains. Thank you all for your consistent and devoted support, which kept me going. Our favorite thing after a passage (besides doing the laundry) was to get on the Internet and read all the comments our friends left us at the bottom of the blurbs we'd posted while underway; it put smiles on our faces and made us feel connected. Many people said the blurb gave them a chance to live the adventure vicariously though us - to momentarily escape snow, or work tedium, or maybe gain a bit of insight or courage for their own adventures to come. But the truth is, I lived the adventure vicariously through you -- in writing about it, I got to experience it first and then live it again. Sitting at my little laptop in rocking seas, writing, rewriting, getting Allan's input, then logging on to the Single Sideband Radio to send it off to Sailblogs (thanks to the HAM radio buffs of the world) or in some cases searching for land-based ways to post it via the Internet -- it all gave me a goal and a purpose. So thank you for being there and for giving me a reason to write.

Farewell but not goodbye (I may post a few more, who knows),
The former Captain and Admiral of s/v Fly Aweigh



03/25/2011 | Bill
One chapter closes, and another (most probably a bit less exciting) opens.

Welcome home !
03/25/2011 | Carol and Lance (sv Syrah)
Last March we decided to change directions in life and become cruisers. While we are still several years away from beginning that journey we now have the boat and a LOT of determination thanks to the 2010 South Pacific fleet of voyagers and adventurers.

We came across Fly Aweigh's story just after you left Mexico and have followed along religiously ever since. Dreaming vicariously of our future adventure through your blurb has only reinforced our desire and reaffirmed that we are heading in the right direction with our lives.

Thank you for your dedicated writing and the many dreamy photos of the South Pacific.

Carol and Lance
www.svsyrah.com
03/25/2011 | Glenn Judson
Thank you, it's been fun!
03/25/2011 | Tom Petry
Welcome back...Thanks again for letting us tag along on your odyssey. We really have enjoyed being "stow-aways" on your adventure.
Since you are going to be "homing" in Claremont...let us know when you are up for getting together for some in person hugs and sharing time and dinner or??
BIG Hugs, Tom 'n Patti
03/25/2011 | LeeAnne
Wow. Can't believe it's over. I feel bereft...as if it's me who just ended an epic adventure-of-a-lifetime. You have written about it so eloquently, evocatively and beautifully that I really do feel as if I experienced it with you. And I'm so sad that I will not have your blurbs to look forward to anymore.

I am one of your devotees who used your experience to gauge my own ability to do something similar. I can't even tell you how much I learned. What I CAN tell you is that your blurbs convinced me beyond a shadow of a doubt that not only am I destined to do this, but that I CAN do it, and I will love it when I do.

I only wish it could come sooner. Charlie and I are in the "golden handcuffs" phase of our lives - we are at our peak earning potential, and it's scary to walk away from that. But your blurbs will, I'm sure, ultimately help me to do so, when the time is right. Knowing that such amazing adventures out there for us, waiting only for us to sail into them, helps put wh
03/25/2011 | LeeAnne
(oops, got cut off...to continue...)

Knowing that such amazing adventures out there for us, helps put what we are doing on a daily basis in perspective. And adding to the bank account will eventually become less of a priority than getting out there to commune with the sea and swim with the whales.

Thank you SO MUCH! Your writing skills are truly extraordinary, which made your blurbs that much more pleasurable to read.

Please drop me a line when you're going to be at CIYC next, so I can be sure to be there to welcome you back.
03/25/2011 | Mary
Tumbled Gyro is open!!!!

Welcome home,
Mary
03/25/2011 | Angelo
Welcome home and thank you for allowing Sue and I to travel with you on your adventure. Look forward to seeing the both of you in the future.
03/25/2011 | Kim
Welcome home!!! But on a selfish note, what do I do now? Quick another adventure :-)
03/26/2011 | Ricardo
Thanks Allen & Alison for showing us what is posible if we get off the hampster wheel for a couple years !
03/26/2011 | Beth Barnhizer
Welcome home! I can't wait to see you again. I'll even drive to Claremont! Missed you. Let's get together soon.
Hugs,
Beth
03/26/2011 | Mike & Lisa - Blue Aweigh
Welcome back. Though we didn't make the big 'right' turn with you two, we enjoyed the adventure nonetheless. We fondly remember our times together in LaCruz and look forward to meeting again sometime in the future. Take care.
03/26/2011 | Sharon Brown
I have started each day with a cup of tea and your blog for the last 18 mos. I'm feeling rather lost without the daily entries but am so very glad to have you back and can't wait to see you! I do hope this blurb will become a book as you as such a gifted writer.
03/26/2011 | Mark and Daryl
So you are back in the land of smog, world class traffic, and in n out burgers. Welcome home.
03/27/2011 | Geri Silveira
Welcome back to Claremont, my friends. Give my congratulations to Scott!
03/27/2011 | Dave Benjamin
We enjoyed meeting you two in Mexico. Seems to be a lot of us pilots "out there." All the best in whatever the future brings. Sounds like you had a great time.
03/27/2011 | DAD AND PHYLLIS
WHAT MORE CAN WE SAY BUT WE ARE GLAD TO HAVE YOU BACK HOME.
03/28/2011 | margy
I am still out there in the Pacific with memories of your trip..Yes, I was there, floating around in your words, smelling the smells, feeling the water sloshing as I suppose you are as well when you stop and close your eyes. But it is good to have you back within driving distance. XXXOOO Ma
03/29/2011 | Doug, Rachael, & Olivia
I will truly be having blurb withdrawals now. What an awesome journey. I am anxious for your next journey blurb. Thank you so much for sharing and please make this into a book!!Doug
04/05/2011 | Scott Righter
So glad you were able to share your amazing adventure. I enjoyed following your blurb and as many others have admitted I lived vicariously though your adventures. I was nervous for you at the start with such huge seas, But now I am so happy you made it back safe and sound. Let me know when your back flying and come through SFO. Congratulations on an amazing adventure.
04/14/2011 | Greg Norte
Can't picture Allan with road rage. Wouldn't he just switch to sidewinders or something? ;-)

You two rule. Tiffany and I miss our adventuring friends.
05/17/2011 | MELINDA SUGLIO
wow, welcome back! I cant tell ya how much I envy you both...to have been able to experience such a wonderful 2 year journey. I cant wait to see you and chat again in Sydney. I am based in SFO now but we can still meet up in Sydney just the same. I will be looking for ya in july or August. Wow, I am so amazed at all the dreams you allow to come true!!!! Melinda Suglio

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