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Seven thousand miles of outstanding cruising since November 2008 means it's time to do a little renovation and more planning for the future. Find out what ...
A Sea of Trees and Glass
Virginia Cross
03/15/2011, Swallow Falls State Park, Garrett County, MD

If you have enjoyed reading our blog on sailblogs.com and would like to follow our next adventures into the wacky world of inn-keeping we'd love you to join us at:

http://allinnkeepersgotoheaven.blogspot.com

See you later alligator!

Back in the US of A
03/17/2011 | Ma Cross (crossaudrey att gmail dott com)
3 weeks later in fact. Get in the Jack Daniels! XX
End of the road
RC
01/07/2011, Deep Creek, MD

Montana was breathtaking - need to come back

Two months after we left Deltaville in early November we pulled into Deep Creek, MD to begin our new assignment as innkeepers at Carmel Cove Inn.


The Inn's a little nippy right now

For the numerically inclined we drove 11,500 miles in portions of 25 states (VA, WV, KY, TN, AL, MS, LA, GA, MD, AR, TX, NM, AZ, CA, OR, WA, ID, MT, WY, NE, IA, IL, IN, OH, and PA).


Kitsch and underwhelming in situ these old rock heads are photogenic


Our ancient (200,000 miles when we started) pick up behaved flawlessly, drinking only fuel and the winter weather, which has been brutal in parts, never got us in its grips. We had balmy days in New Orleans, torrential rainfall in Los Angeles and cold but good conditions for the cross country trek.
The purpose of the trip, to visit our three sprogs, was fulfilled in spades.

Road trip
01/23/2011 | Ma Cross (crossaudrey att gmail dott com)
Ahh!
02/04/2011 | Stewart (s dott gillies att nl dott rogers dott com)
you wroye an article as I remember on head smells on a boat and how to avoid them, where can I find it thanks. Lov the blog as much as you guys love life.
02/17/2011 | David & Suzi (soboscave att gmail dott com)
Stewart- I think they get rid of head smells by dumping the bucket !!! I heard it works great.
02/17/2011 | Richard (richardcross686 att gmail dott com)
We always made a point of saving everything until we swung real close to Sidewinder ... and then dumped
02/23/2011 | Rick Johnson (sailbeyondnow att yahoo dott com)
Remind me not to come close when the bucket is full. Pictures look great. Glad to see you enjoying the cold.

Looks good.
The Sea, The Sea
RC
01/01/2011, Tacoma, WA

In 400 B.C. Xenophon accompanied Cyrus the Younger's army of Greek mercenaries on their mission to seize the throne of Persia. Through the inevitable disasters of war "the Ten Thousand" were left lost and stranded in enemy territory without food or supplies, a mission or a leader. Their re-organization, and discovery of a way back to the sea, which they know is home, is the core of Xenophon's "Anabasis".
We have over the last two years met and grown to know some wonderful people. It is no surprise that most are, shall we say, in their mature years, and in order to be out larking around in a boat have, by and large, for want of a better term, got their shit together. Also on our drive across the country we have had the privilege of staying with many old friends and for a brief time being a part of their lives. With the proviso that for all of us misfortune or disaster can be merely an accident or illness away, these people have for the most part carved out a dream and lived at least a small part of it. We all develop an internal life narrative and the ability to get the most out of our lives can depend on how we fulfill that narrative, or adjust it as circumstances change. It may be illusion, but a degree of stability and security is tangible in these lives.
Twenty-somethings, our children and their friends, for the most part have not attained this stability and would probably be horrified if they had. Nevertheless it is surely the trajectory they are on for we are all not so dissimilar from the beasts in our basic needs of fire, bed and bone. But for them, post college, is a time without much stability and with room to experiment where relationships, jobs, careers and location are all in flux. For us this is disquieting even unnerving, but surely it is a process as necessary as Xenephon's journey. He could not find his way before, for it could not been revealed until he had been lost. It can be excruciating to watch, but there is little we can do than wait to hear the yell "The Sea, The Sea".







Road trip
01/03/2011 | Malcolm (famsym att pandora dott be)
A very happy 2011 to you and your respective families - take care and wish you all success, prosperity and most of all good health.
01/10/2011 | Kate Prickett (kate dott prickett att btopenworld dott com)
Beautifully said Virginia.
A joyful 2011 to you and yours.
01/11/2011 | Laura de Seroux (lauradeseroux att sbcglobal dott net)
How is the new gig in Maryland going?
01/22/2011 | Ma Cross (crossaudrey att gmail dott com)
Do update your blog, I'm sick of that old boy. All loveXX
Old Couch Surfers of the World Unite.
Virginia
12/28/2010


COUCH SURFING - Participating in creating a better world, one couch at a time. Connecting travelers with members of local communities, who offer free accommodation and/or advice.

It is the newest thing in the world traveler's vocabulary. Hostels are passé and B & Bs are positively out of the question for many in today's economy, but couch surfing opens up a whole new world of possibilities. It is a win/win situation for the couch surfer and the couch host, not to mention the benefits of sharing knowledge of the world and connecting to other cultures in a most organic way.

We have joked as we have traversed the country staying with our family and close friends that we have joined the ranks of couch surfers united, for we have been making the most of free places to stay and participating in some unusual activities, such as knife making, fox hunting, polo support team, Fringe theatre audience, competitive cycling and racehorse training (again). In exchange we try to give back by cooking meals, gardening, dog walking, home repair work and telling some choice yarns from our past two years at sea.

We have slept on some couches as well as beds of every description. We were actually prepared for sleeping on the floor where ever necessary and packed sleeping pads and sleeping bags in the truck. We are not accustomed to a high degree of comfort; our double berth on MANDY is on the narrow side, but is firm and cosy. In a rolling sea we have the pilot berth where the lee cloth holds one person cradled in safety while asleep. It is with some pride that we can both sleep anywhere we lay our heads but, it is especially sound sleep when it all comes free.

The population of today's Couch Surfing Culture appears to be solidly in the under thirties age range, so including ourselves may be pushing the envelope somewhat. Before long (9 days) we will be in Maryland and we will be able to choose a bed for the next couple of years in the Inn Keepers apartment. I also plan to get a comfortable sleeper sofa for our family or friends who come to visit. When we eventually reach Galicia, Spain to renovate our farmhouse there, I am seriously thinking of signing up to be a couch surfing host. Until then we will be practicing our hosting skills for the future in the old fashioned B & B industry.

Road trip
02/17/2011 | David & Suzi (soboscave att gmail dott com)
Suzi and I are members of the Couch Surfing Team as well and like you and Richard we are well above the average age of our fellow members. But this hasn't stopped us from being members in good standing and enjoying the perks that come with it.
Holiday Card
Virginia
12/17/2010, Sierra Madre, CA

The year is drawing to an end. As we look back on 2010 it is hard to imagine cramming more into it than we did. And yet thoughts of what we have left undone and people we have not been able to spend time with bring sharp pangs of regret nevertheless.

For us, 2011 will be another drastic lifestyle change. We lurch forward with good intentions and open minds for what lies ahead. May we, our dear family and friends make the best of what is to come, good or bad, expected or unexpected, because that is the secret of life on this strange and beautiful planet we call home.


Taking a deep breath
12/28/2010 | Laura de Seroux (lauradeseroux att sbcglobal dott net)
How was Xmas eve dinner at Drysdale's?
Mandy Minor enters the 21st century - sort of
RC
12/12/2010, Leucadia, CA

Many think these are not worth keeping, even as a spare anchor. Others say the best day of their life was the day they got rid of their Seagull. One fellow on the forum said that he knew where a fine Forty-plus was available ... on the bottom of a bay in Tortola where he hurled it in disgust. But fools rush in where angels fear to tread, so when our old slip neighbor and boatwork guru Barron offered to give us one we jumped at the chance, for how cool will this look on Mandy Minor. We will dress it up this winter and give it a go next spring. When we get a few miles up a mangrove river and then have to row back when it takes a holiday I will let you know how much we love it.



Road trip
12/14/2010 | Ian (ianjory att mindspring dott com)
We grew up with a Seagull, and it was the greatest, most infuriating, most reliable, and most unreliable outboard you could ever have. You will know exactly what I mean if you ever get it started!
12/16/2010 | Lou Freeman (svseabird att mac dott com)
I have heard that those motors are still being found in the sands of Normandy beach from D-Day. They get cleaned up and work. Good Luck!!
Lou/Seabird

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